Friday, January 18, 2008

SEX ABUSE IN CHILDHOOD

Introduction:

There are many parents who think that they need not know about sex abuse &suicidal tendencies of childhood."Eyes dont see what the mind does n't".Parents should have an open mind to discuss these matters whenever they see a TV News or any other relevant accasion if there is a news in the dailies.There is nothing to feel shy about it.It is better they learn these things through parents than from any other source.

SEX ABUSE:

Usual age &sex affected:Any age & any sex.

Mostly men above 50are involved who are unsuspicious strangers,who are single.

Some reasons why these perverts choose children.

1)They are defenceless &can be frieghtened easily.
2)From time immemorial there is a myth that "those who suffer from VD can get cured if they have an affair with a vergin.
3)Mostly anus is the anatomical site involved.So if there is bleed in the external genitals or at anus,parents should suspect a possible sex offence.

PREVENTION:
1) CHILDREN FROM AGE 10 upto15(some times even younger)should be told not to accept sweets eatables,soft drinks,ice creams from known or unknown people.Tell them like this:
"If your teacher some body known to you calls you to meet you to an isolated lone placefor an interesting matter-like free ice cream ,or free cooling glass, dont go"
"Beware that something funny may take place there.they may kidnap you&sell in some far off state."
"If you get stuck up.Be silent.dont talk. THINK ABOUT HOW TO ESCAPE"
"Never friehgten the kidnap criminalsby saying you will inform police while you are in their custody"
Whenever this kind of real life news are published take this opportunity to discuss with children

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