CHARECTER CONSTRUCTION FOR CHILDREN

This also is a systamatic sophisticated structural construction from early childhood &it would not sprout all on a sudden.This is like a building raised with foundation &slow step by step construction work of psychological "bricks &cement".If the "materials "used are, not adulterated the resulting building(child) will be strong,long standing.
Father or any other male member , mother or any other female member, should be available to be a role model for the child.children automatically learn to be a hero worshiper.But the role model should possess all virtues,including good dressing sense,polishing of shoes,punctuality maintainance&decency in all behaviours.Exemplifying model should have sense of humour &euphimism which should be taught to children then &there with actual life situation..If father & mother possess all these, children will imbibe these qualities.Teach children in the young agefrom age 5 onwards to address elders with respectful terms,including father &mother.( eg:
"vanga" "ponga" in tamil meaning:" come ,go"insead of" va po" while speaking to parents) Like charity everything begins at home.Relevant story:I studied the story of a "VILLAGE SCHOOL MASTER" in english prose, while in form IV.The school master served as a single teacher in 18 th centuaryHe had a duel duty of teaching children in school& unofficially educating the the villagers on day today affairs.The villagers were approaching the school master for the following issues.
1)To find out wheather it will rain today or not&if agricultural works can be started or not
2)how to apply manures to land &how to give medical treatment to cows &bullocks if they are sick,as if he was a vetrinary doctor!.
3)when will be the right time for harvesting.
4)how to raise poultry.
5) how to hatch the eggs
6)how to go to another village--direction &route
Parents should be like the village school master &educate their children continously at all times on all days.Unless you show them love & affecton, give enormous sense of security, they may not obey you &attempts to discipline them may be a tough job.