Descipline Enforcement --Parents Duty

All my wright ups are not going to be likewhat you read in books.It will be more purposely personal &will kook like man to man(one to one) talking so that the readers understanding will be easier& a gainful pastime

How exactly the job of exicution of discipline to be done in lfe in practice?



pactical procedure:

If father &mother are disciplined children will automatically become disciplined.POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKE, gently &politely without using harsh words.Dont beat children.But act as if you may beat them in all probability.YOUR VERBAL TONE MUST BE SERIOUS.Dont use vulgar language. I f you find them using such filth,take it easy &conincingly speak to them ,what it means,what effect it will produce on the person scolded & how it will reflect on his own charecter.SURELY TELL THEM it will assasinate their own charecter.Put a question weather "you want to be good a good citizen or not"."You want people to praise you or not?"If they repeat mistakes,give warnig twice,&act on the third time.Ask them to kneel down for 5 mts for adament children.(This is not advocated by few psychiatrists.)Alternatively you can tell them you are not going to talk to them.usually they will come to terms.some times if you give group punishment that will be o.k. &no one will feel guilty.After all what is discipline?Doing good things with motives for good purpose &good benifits so that life will be smooth &peaceful&without worries.Explain to them why the punishment was givenSay it is only for his betterment.Dont compare your son with other children.
Disipline required in the following areas.
1)Getting up from bed &going to bed in time.
2)Take cofee after brushing teeth.
3)Toilet ,bath at fixed time.
4)Keep things back in the same place
5)Nail cutting weekly onc
6)work while you work& play while you play
7)Never allowgossiping,no indulgence in wasting time.
8)Dont ask them to study often;but keep an eye on the home work done .
9)Let them do some drawing, painting or work of arts like making ship aeroplane etc etc from papers
10)Let them learn game of chess.hand held video games.(it will developethe mind for calculative thinking,&mental &motor coordination)&provide as a temporary escapism from study.
Many parents show their angerwith children&beat them when their actual anger is with their spouces.Though this is a psychiatric problem this is to be done never.