Thursday, May 5, 2016

EFFECTIVE PARENTING--2

29)THERE IS CONSIDERABLE CHANGE OF CHARECTER &BEHAVIOUR AT AGE 15-18 IN GIRLS &16-20 IN BOYS THIS IS DUE TO PLAY OF HORMONES.OESTROGEN IS FEMALE HORMONE &TESTOSTERONE IS MALE HORMONE,MEANT FOR SEXUAL REPRODUCTION TO CONTINUE THE PRIGENY FOR NEXT GENERATION.ALL SEX RELATED BEHAVIOUR &MISBEHAVIOUR ARE RELATED TO HORMONAL PLAY.THIS IS THE AGE WHEN ADAM & EVE,WANT TO KNOW /EXPERIENCE,THE TASTE OF APPLE.IF THERE IS GOOD PARENTAL CONTROLE,CHILDREN DONT GET INTO THIS COMLICATED SEX NET.ONCE THEY GET INTO THE NET MAJORITY OF THEM ARE LIKE FISHES INSDE THE NET &THEIR FATE MAY CHANGE CONSIDERABLY ABNORMAL.FALLING IN LOVE ELOPING WITH OPPOSITE SEX ARE COMMON.SO IT IS IMPERATIVE THAT CHILDREN ARE TAUGHT APPROPRIATELY AT THIS AGE BY PARENTS,/COUNCILLORS/DOCTORS/PSYCHOLOGISTS.THERE IS NOTHING THAT ADOLESCENTS SHOULD NOT KNOW.
30)THERE ARE PLENTY OF RELIGION ORIENTED MORAL STORIES IN ALL RELIGIONS.THEY ARE AVAILABLE AS BOOKS, CDS.CHILDREN SHOULD BE EXPOSED TO ALLSUCH STORIES SO THAT THEY BECOME A MORALLY STRONG INDIVIDUALS,&THEY CAN FACE THE SOCIETY WITH GREAT CONFIDENCE

31)BEATING SCOLDING CHILDREN WITH VULGAR WORDS,CAN NOT YIED GOOD RESULTS.THIS GENERATION CHILDREN ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT,&UNLESS THEY ARE HANDLED WITH GREAT CARE,THEY WILL MISBEHAVE WITH PARENTS,ENDING UP WITH TOTAL FAMILY DISHARMONY.IF PARENTS ARE UNABLE TO CONTROLE CHILDREN,THERE ARE MANY SENIOR CITIZENS DOCTORS PSYCHOLOGISTS COUNCILLORS,WHO CAN FIND SOLUTION TO ALL CHILDRENS PROBLEMS
32)PARENTS SHOULD NOT THINK THAT THEY ARE THE ULTIMATE JUDGES FOR ALL PROBLEMS
33)SHOWING TOO MUCH LOVE &AFFECTION IS NOT GOOD THEY SHOULD ALLWAYS HAVE SENSE OF FEAR TOWARDS PARENTS BUT THEY SHOULD BE GIVEN ENOUGH FREEDOM TO EXPRESS THEIR MIND THEY SHOULD CONSIDER PARENTS AS THEIR BEST &FIRST FRIEND.TO THAT EXTANT PARENTS SHOULD CULTIVATE LOVE &AFFECTION DEVELOPEMENT,LIKE A SMALL PLANT GROWING GRADUALLY
PARENTS CAN EVEN HAVE A STICK ,NOT TO STRICK BUT TO TERRORISE,IN CASE OF MISBEVIOUR UNCONTROLLABLE
IF OBEDIENCE &DDESCIPLINE ARE ABSCENT IN A CHILD THAT CHILD CAN NOT BE BROUGHT UP AS A NORMAL CHILD.BUT SOLUTIONS ARE AVAILABLE WITH PSYCHIATRISTS.

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